If your cat doesn’t come scampering over when you call his name, it may be because he’s never really been motivated to. Cats tend to do as they please, so teaching them anything has to involve their own pleasure. Here’s what to do:
1. Start when your cat is with you, in a contented mood, such as when curled up on your lap. Pet your cat in the way your cat most likes to be petted, and say his name a few times in a soft, friendly voice. Do this several times each day. After a while, you cat will associate the pleasure of being petted with his name.
2. Next, when stroking your cat, and saying his name, if he turns his head to look at you, give him a reward, such as a small cat treat or a scratch behind the hears. Praise your kitty.
3. Then, sometime when your cat is near you, not sleeping, say his name in the same tone of voice. When he looks at you, praise him. If he comes to you, give him a reward and praise. Practice this several times a day.
4. As your cat catches on, knowing that pleasurable things come when he hears his name, try saying it further away from him, eventually from another room. Reward your cat with a treat, stroking or a toy, and praise each time. (You’ll find what reward works best for your own cat.)
Tip: Never say your cat’s name in a forceful voice to stop him from doing something wrong–such as jumping up on the dining room table. Say “no!” instead (or use a spray from a water bottle) so he doesn’t associate his name with getting in trouble.