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Cesar FAQs: Part two

Posted Sun, Jul 27, 2008, 10:44 pm PDT

In my last blog, I answered some questions that I am asked on a regular basis, in order to introduce any new readers or viewers to who I am and what I do. So if you are a new fan of the show, or just a dog lover unfamiliar with my methods, here are the answers that may shed some light on why they call me "The Dog Whisperer!" 

How can I get my dog to change? How do YOU do it?
You need to understand your dog. That is where you need to start. People humanize their dogs and think of them as little furry people, and when they do that, they are missing out on fulfilling the most important part of their dog - the animal. If you understand the pack mentality, show your dog that you are the pack leader, fulfill them with exercise, discipline, and affection (in that order!) and give them clear rules, boundaries, and limitations, you can begin to see the changes you desire.

What is the "pack mentality?"
Dogs are pack animals in nature. That instinct is there, even in domestic dogs. The pack unit is just the way a dog relates to other dogs. You can turn your family into your dog's pack, but it is important that all human family members be seen as pack leaders.  This does not occur through force or intimidation, but through your steady confidence and your calm-assertive energy. If your pack is stable and balanced, your dog will follow your lead. 

What's the most common mistake people make with their dog?
They don't develop that pack-follower/pack-leader relationship immediately. If your pack doesn't have a clearly defined leader, your dog can become confused and try to fill that role himself. That's where a lot of behavior problems come from - instability in the pack. Another big mistake is thinking that your dog needs love and affection before it needs that stability. Fulfill your dog's physical and psychological needs first, THEN provide affection.

Thanks for reading!

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21 Comments

  • 1. Wanda C - 4:42AM on 07/28/08

    i love your show I READ THIS OVER AND OVER

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  • 2. Chloe's Mom - 6:39AM on 07/28/08

    We have learned so much from your show. We have tried the more simple techniques and it has made such a difference. Walking our dog has become a joy for him and us! Thanks very much!!

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  • 3. btru2theearth - 12:13PM on 07/28/08

    you are amazing !!

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  • 4. Melanie - 1:02PM on 07/28/08

    Thanks to your show and books, our 90 pound german/australian shepard mix is a wonderful family pet. Following your advice has made all the difference in how we interact with him. Walking him is no longer a drag...literally! Now it's a pleasure, especially when he gets to go out next to us on our bikes. Our 3 sons, 2 of which the dog outweighs, are still strong pack leaders thanks to Cesars Way. Thank so much...you have made all the difference to our family!

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  • 5. LAVERNE H - 8:06AM on 07/29/08

    I am learning so much as how to handle my dog,which happens to be a shiba inu mix/austrailian cattle dog. is anyone familiar with this type of animal.

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  • 6. beadgirl33 - 2:27PM on 07/29/08

    I haven't seen my dog's problem addressed. She has supersonic hearing and she barks/growls at "imaginary" sounds and refuses to stop. She knows she is being bad because she makes her hangdog face when scolded or waits until I turn my back, get into bed, etc to grumble some more. She usually only does this at night. She gets three walks a day, the longest usually being 2+ miles so is not lacking for exercise or excitement. What's a girl to do???

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  • 7. athena2552 - 2:31PM on 07/30/08

    How about "play biting" in a shelter dog who was never taught not to bite? She doesn't do it viciously, but because she's over a year old and never learned, what she thinks is playing actually bruises and sometimes scratches us. Luckily we are on top of it and it hasn't happened to anyone else. We don't know how to weed it out of her other than the usual substituting toys for our arms and saying "ow" when she bites. Any advice? A muzzle?

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  • 8. deb_garrison1957 - 12:52PM on 08/01/08

    I have a two year old german sheperd a male, who runs every chance he gets,he has gone though four screens two get out,we have to keep him on a chain,how can i train him to stay in the yard he has a few acre's two run but he always takes off, and digs huge holes in the yard.we do go for walks.Does anyone know how to keep him from running off,and digging.I have two other dogs and they never take off.

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  • 9. Cha-Cha - 2:31PM on 08/01/08

    Deb is your Geman Shepard Nutered? I suspect he is looking to sow some oats rather than just run away.

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  • 10. Rose - 5:11AM on 08/03/08

    athena2552 -- I had this same problem with a miniature poodle I rescued. He just didn't know any better. They DO learn that biting too hard when playing means they don't get to play. I think my dog learned this from his other "dog brothers" and the neighbor dogs even better than he learned it from us. But firm "no's" help, and if she gets too "bitey" too quickly, the play stops until she settles down. A lot of repetition helped us, but so did haveing him around other dogs to play with.

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  • 11. Zana F - 5:56PM on 08/05/08

    Flea = Prevention etc... I lost one of my Peke's in Dec. 07 only 2 1/2 years old and I think that Advantage had something to do with it since he started getting seizures after I applied it. I hated to do it the few times I did and everything in me said no but he was allergic to fleas and nothing natural worked to well - he was itching like crazy and so I did it and now I feel very sad that I have lost him and tha I have ignored my inner voice. We now have another Peke - well we have 2 and fleas are back ...too many stray cats all over the place and I groom them daily with ess. oil dips but it is not 100%. I am afraid to try Advantage or Frontline again but I do not have another answer to the problem. I want them to be safe and healthy. Can you pleae advice what your pov about the chemical flea meds. and what do you use on your dogs? I am a Holistic Practitioner and have an even more neg. opinion about poison on my pets body or anybody/kids/humans etc... Blessings, Zana

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  • 12. yp_amy_hagerstown_201 - 7:15AM on 08/10/08

    i love your show i watch it everytime i get a chance i think you are great and i would love to meet you ..i am a big animal lover and i am a dog groomer hoping i can start a buiness soon of dog sitting/walking / grooming. if you ever get close to hagerstown let us no .thank you

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  • 13. yp_amy_hagerstown_201 - 8:14AM on 08/10/08

    i entered my comment wheres it at

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  • 14. powellro - 5:38PM on 08/10/08

    Hi Cesar, I love your show. Your expertise is so reassuring. We have a 7 year old female sheltie/beagle who is such a dear but her separation anxiety is over the top. She's whining right now while waiting for my husband to return. I'm ignoring her. Any additional tips to add with the ones you have made earlier. Thank you. Rosemary

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  • 15. Christine - 6:18PM on 08/10/08

    I love your show and my dog, Penny loves to watch too.

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  • 16. Cryolu - 2:42AM on 08/12/08

    I love you show! You stress the importance of walk.....but my problem is that I have a dog that refuses to move an inch on leash. I have to drag her.........the case if pretty difficult. Maybe you can write something about problems related to walking dogs. --dragging, pulling, distractions...etc.

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  • 17. my kids - 6:52AM on 08/13/08

    Will some of your tecniques work on cats?

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  • 18. m1ssymay - 5:32AM on 08/15/08

    I wonder how pack theory holds up given the facts that: A) The interpretation of behaviors behind this theory was a misinterpretation of the behavior of a bunch of random (ie not a "pack" or family) wolves in an unnatural stting, creating stress. B) In order to think in rank, symbolic thinking is required. The part of the brain responsible for symbolic thinking is underdeveloped in dogs making it unlikely that they are capable of hierarchial thinking.

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  • 19. Malibu - 8:30AM on 08/24/08

    My 5 month old lab (Bruno) does not want to calm down when I try walking him. He is SO hyper that he just pulls me. I can imagine when he gets older and bigger! Help. He also "play bites" and I tell him no but he gets mad at me when I tell him no and bites me even more. I know he is just a puppy but I know he is just playing but you should see all my bruises and scratches. My daughter is afraid of him when he starts play biting and she is the one who brought him home. I am the one who gives him the exercise, discipline and affection in that order but he is really a handful. Oh how I wish I could afford you Cesar!!!

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  • 20. mommabear - 3:48PM on 08/25/08

    Hi we love your show and have followed all of your advice. We have a 4 year old german sheperd mix who has a major stranger anxiety. We do not have any friends over because he barks and growls so much. I believe he was abused when we had him boarded 2 years ago because this is when it started. He is deathly afraid of males, and will bark very viciously although I know he wouldn't bite anyone. If you heard him bark though, I would be afraid too. We have tried crating him when people come in, that only makes the matter worse. When I walk him I am constantly looking around to make sure no one is coming out their door because he goes crazy. He really is the most gentle dog, goes to doggie day care weekly, socializes in the dog park with no problem (although he will go up to the males and bark at them, then run away and play.) HELP!!!

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  • 21. Dan O. - 2:32AM on 09/04/08

    To my kids, They work on my girlfriend's male cat. He hated me at first and slowly but surely he is coming around. He is learning the difference between his space and mine. He even lets me pet him now.

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